A trust-first, consent-forward dating app built from the ground up for polyamory, ENM, and kink communities. Express your authentic self with 105+ profile options.
Every feature designed specifically for polyamory, ENM, and kink communities. No afterthoughts.
Create shared profiles with your partner. Both of you can swipe, match, and message together. Perfect for exploring as a team.
Gender identities, sexual orientations, relationship styles, kinks, desires, and lifestyle preferences. Express your authentic self.
Row Level Security (RLS) ensures only matched users can access conversations. Your privacy is non-negotiable.
GPS for local matches, Travel for cities you're visiting. Geohash matching shows general area only. You control your visibility.
Smart compatibility scoring shows your best matches first. See who liked you with badges and get instant compatibility percentages. AI analyzes relationship styles, desires, and values for quality connections.
Selfie verification system ensures real people. No bots, no fake profiles, no catfishing. Genuine connections only.
Choose the discovery mode that matches your energy. Switch anytime.
AI-powered card browsing with instant compatibility insights. See who liked you and high-match scores upfront. Smart sorting shows your best matches first. Fast, intuitive, and optimized for quality connections.
Photos unlock as you interact and build connection. Start with blurred profile photos that gradually reveal through engagement. Focus on compatibility and conversation before appearance. Reduces bias, increases genuine connections.
Advanced compatibility matching powered by AI. Detailed analysis of relationship styles, desires, orientations, and values. See compatibility breakdowns and smart recommendations. For those who want substance over volume.
Intuition-based discovery with animated energy matching. Go beyond checkboxes and algorithms. Discover connections through feel, energy, and instinct. Swipe based on vibe colors and emotional resonance.
Your desires are valid. Your relationships are real. Your privacy is sacred.
The OPEN/secret promise
We solve the problems other apps ignore.
ENM and poly users are an afterthought on mainstream dating apps. Hidden behind paywalls or treated as a filter.
Built from the ground up for ethical non-monogamy. Every feature is designed specifically for our community.
No support for couples. Partners are forced to create separate profiles and manage connections independently.
Shared couple profiles where both partners can swipe, match, and message together. Explore as a team.
Superficial swiping based only on photos leads to swipe fatigue, shallow connections, and wasted time.
4 discovery modes including Progressive Reveal (personality first) and Deep Dive (compatibility matching).
Privacy violations, location tracking, and data exploitation. Your alternative lifestyle exposed without consent.
Secure encrypted messaging and GPS/Travel location privacy. Your privacy is sacred.
Predatory monetization. Pay-to-play messaging, hidden profiles, and features locked behind expensive subscriptions.
All core features free. Premium enhances but isn't required. Community over profit. Always.
No safety resources for our community. Mainstream apps ignore the unique needs of kink, ENM, and LGBTQ+ individuals entirely.
Specialized crisis support, consent education, and community resources built specifically for kink, ENM, and LGBTQ+ individuals — because mainstream apps ignore these needs.
Comprehensive safety features and community resources designed for the unique needs of alternative lifestyle communities.
Every interaction is built around consent. Our platform enforces it through community guidelines, moderation, and zero tolerance for coercive behavior.
Harassment, manipulation, and non-consensual image sharing result in immediate permanent removal. Our moderation team understands the difference between consensual power exchange and genuine abuse.
Row Level Security ensures only matched users can access conversations. Your messages are encrypted and private.
BDSM roles and dynamics, ENM relationship styles, consent frameworks, terminology, and community norms — all in one place, built for our community.
24/7 crisis resources for kink, ENM, and LGBTQ+ communities. Hotlines staffed by people who understand your relationships — no explaining required.
GPS for local matches, Travel for cities you're visiting. Geohash matching shows general area only. You control precision.
Join a community that gets it. Where your relationship style is celebrated, your desires are understood, and your privacy is protected.
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